How we learn by Experience
As we know very well that EXPERIENCE is a best teacher in the world. Its main aim is to teach us that how to live in this world of cruel people. No one can teach us the real lessons of the life as well as it can. It is a strict schoolmistress. It sets us tough lessons, punishes, harshly who are careless and stupid, and charges very high fees. But what it teaches, it teaches in a way which is best possible. We never forget its lessons. The worst of it is that we sometimes learn its lessons are being too late.
The man who breaks all the rules of health in his youth by self-indulgence and vice, learns at last, when his health is ruined for life, the right way of living, but it becomes too late to be of any use to him. And also a student who do not pay attention to his studies and spent his time in different games and waste his time with friends, wake up at that time when he got failed in all subjects and finally lost his precious year of studies.
In present situation of now a days many younger don’t like that their elders advice them about their activities or stop them to do the same activities but its natural that when we don’t know about anything we deny the advices but when we got damage then we realizes that a person who remains preventing us from the same activity he want to warn us but we don’t understand.
Often we warn a child against playing with match box, but he does not believe you, until he burns his hands. After that the burnt child is afraid from the fire. Sometimes we tell a boy not to interfere with stray dogs; but he turns a deaf ear until he gets a horrible bite from dog. After that once injured, he feels shy that he ignored the sayings and got bite and this lesson will not forget by him.
In the same way elder people have to learn for themselves, often by bitter experience, such old truth as Honesty is the best policy, All that glitters is not gold, No pains, no gains, Cut your coat according to your cloth, and Look before your leap. In such old proverbs much wisdom gained by experience has been stored. It is by suffering we learn patience; by facing danger we learn courage; by sorrow we learn sympathy, by mistakes we learn wisdom.
But all these LESSONS are not unpleasant. Whether they are pleasant or unpleasant depending upon ourselves. Many incidents which happen, we forget easily in our life but whatever experience taught, us we cannot expel from our minds..
